Living in SoCal

Despite the cost of living, there are so many advantages to raising children in Southern California.  It takes little planning to be able to expose children to many aspects of culture, science, history and performing arts.  This summer, we spent one day immersed in the artwork at The Getty Villa.  The next, we ventured out do experience American’s pastime – baseball.  A few weeks before that, we studied Renaissance traditions at a local fair.  Just this weekend, we visited the restored farmhouse of our town’s founder.

Additionally, the classrooms are a melting pot that expose the students to their peers of different social, ethnic, religious and moral backgrounds.  Students naturally build a well-rounded network to draw upon in years to come.

I’m often asked if I ever consider moving to another area that would be more affordable.  Maybe somewhere where there are less fires, more rain and no earthquakes.  Nope, Never.  The benefits of So Cal outweigh the risks.

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Show 3

This episode is a great example of Chapter 8 conflicts

Throughout the episode there are multiple examples of Affective Conflicts, where there are personal attacks that may contribute to even more conflicts within the tribes.

Since Jeremy’s wife was sent home ìn episode 2, he feels a resentment towards the baseball player John for not protecting her against being eliminated. I do not undertand why it would piss Jeremy off that John didn’t protect him when the game is based on the survival of an indivisual. There is no garunteed way that John could have ensured her safety. Since Jeremy got really butthurt he soon began to turn his own tribe against John by releasing his true identity and the rumors about him given in an article in the past.

Now that the personal conflict between Jeremy and John has been established it soon extends to a huge conflict throuhgout each of the tribes. Natalie goes off on John and reveals to the orange team what he once stood for. Given the news the orange team falls into a progressive conflict when they can not decide who to vote out that night. Since the personal complications have developed a slippery slope into something bigger which concludes with john being voted out,

Time for Change

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Common Core.. This is a topic we have been discussing in our methods courses this semester. There is SO much controversy about these standards being implemented, but no matter if they are liked or not, they are coming. I would like to put my perspective about this topic.

First of all, I am always about looking at both sides of a situation, but if you were to ask me, I am totally FOR Common Core. Just the FOUR “C’s” of Common Core (Creativity, Communication, Critical Thinking, and Collaboration) alone show my reasons of why I enjoy Common Core. Although some strategies may be too advanced for some students, the overall concept of having students think outside of the box, come up with ideas, and think about their way of thinking are what these standards bring. This is the time for teachers to show their creative side on how they teach. It’s time to use less textbooks and do more activities that tie in all Gardner’s intelligences, including technology usage!

Not only is it time to be creative, but also to be collaborative with peers. Interacting with their peers will expand students’ way of thinking and have them develop their critical thinking. I have recently seen this in action in my placement class. Students enjoy talking with each other about Language Arts, Math, Social Studies, and Science.

Joining all these 4 concepts of Common Core together will make learning more enjoyable and higher changes of it being imbedded in students’ head. Common Core is what will help structure and guide our next generation for the future.

Plenty of Conflict in Survivor

There is a lot of conflict in the show Survivor. Conflict is defined as the disagreement and disharmony that occurs in groups when members express differences. For example at the beginning of the episode, Drew wanted to negotiate with Jeff and trade the lost flint for the fishing gear. However, none of the tribe members agreed with this decision. They experienced substantive conflict because the tribe members disagreed about his decisions, ideas and actions. Jeff turned down Drew so the members were right for disagreeing.

Affective Conflict can happen when there are interpersonal disagreements and members conflicting core values and beliefs. For example, Jeremy is upset because Keith is telling the others that he has an idol. In Jeremy’s commentaries, he states that Keith could have just asked him directly instead of spreading the rumor and telling the others. That shows a conflict due to a different in core vales and beliefs. Jeremy thought Keith had his back but felt his values were different.

Affective conflict can also occur members do not feel appreciated. For example, Missy is feeling annoyed by Alec and she has to bite her tongue several times. When they were going to cook the rice, they made her go back down and rinse off the dish because Alec felt she was “half ass-ing it”. She is feeling unappreciated by the others.

Procedural Conflict is disagreement among group members about the method or process the group uses in attempt to accomplish a goal. For example, Drew decides to throw the challenge so his team is not safe for being voted off and so he can get ride of the ‘snakes’. The rest of his group members would probably disagree if they knew of the hidden method/strategy.

We also see a lot of competition conflict style. This type of style occurs when group members are more concerned with their own goals than with those of the group. For example, Drew throwing the challenge in order to achieve his own goal of ultimately becoming the survivor winner. He says, “I am a bad ass, manipulator of the game.” However, at the the end he gets voted off.

Survivor is full of conflict and only getting better!

Survivor Episode 4 – Bye Bye Drew!!!

At the beginning of this episode, the Hunahpu tribe finally finds out that John was voted off the Coyopa tribe and there were a lot of mixed emotions. Natalie seemed very happy whereas Julie, John’s wife, seemed a little mad/sad.  This could lead to conflict in the future if she tries to get back at the other members.

There is group conflict everywhere you turn in this show. One of the first conflicts displayed in the forth episode was when the Hunahpu tribe finds the flint that they had lost and Drew wants ask to trade some fishing gear for it. The whole tribe doesn’t want Drew ask for the trade because they know he’ll get turned down, which he does. That was just the beginning of the conflict Drew starts. Drew decides to throw the immunity challenge because he wanted to start getting rid of the some of the players on his team. He thinks that he is the leader of the team and that he knows how everyone is going to vote but little does he know that the whole team blindsides him and he is the one being kicked off the show. I was extremely happy to see him go because he was lazy and didn’t care for anyone else except himself. He started conflict between his own team and could have potentially ruined the team in the future. I think the team made the right decision. I think this whole situation was a perfect example of affective conflict because Drew struggled for power and thought he had it but in the end, the group resolved it the only way they knew how…they kicked in off.  I strongly believe that if Drew would have stayed on the team there would have been more destructive conflict that arose rather than constructive conflict. I’m excited to see the next episode and to see Drew’s brothers face when he realizes his brother is out of the game.

This week on survivkor….

On episode 4 of Survivor it starts off with Jacqueline loosing against her boyfriend in the first obstacle and she is sent to exile island along with Drew from the opposite team. While on the Island Drew confides in Jacqueline that he is thinking about throwing the next competition on purpose to start weeding out some of his own team mates, specifically targeting the girls.  Once Drew and Jacqueline returned and participate in the next challenge, it is obvious Drew throws the win. Since Drew believes he is an essential leader of his tribe he tries to get his team members on his side to agree to vote off Kelly a seemingly nonthreatening contestant, but has been obviously irritated with Drew’s ego. During the elimination- lots of conflicts were brought up and discussed, including Drew’s idea that the girls were going to be aligning against the men and although they were smaller in number had to be dealt with.  Ultimately all the girls vote Drew off and get him eliminated.

What makes this show so entertaining is the meshing between all of the different people. Not only are there different sexes, but ages, cultures, careers, and relationships. Many of these things play a part in how the members interact with one another, form alliances, and create a strategy.  There is a number of firefighters on the show, in good physical condition and dominate personalities. Some people are trusting and feel betrayed. For instance Jeremy thinks to be in an alliance with Keith, both firemen, and feels betrayed by Keith when he learns Keith started a rumor that Jeremy posses an immunity. What Jeremy believed to be a break in their trust, Keith did not.  Another part of the show that sticks out in my mind is when Alec, Drew’s twin brother is talking about the differences in their growing up he claims that their father would go to Alec when he needed things done, and points out that Drew is the lazier of the two and always has been.

All of these different races, genders and beliefs are just a few reasons that contribute to the diversity in the team members. All have their own perspective of how they view different situations and conflicts should be handled. Some personalities are bigger and more aggressive than others and those seem to be the ones being voted off more frequently. Not everyone is perfect and it is easier to see the flaws in those who constantly speak their minds and everyone begins to decide for themselves who should stay and who needs to go.

Episode #3

On this episode the tribes really get pushed to new pressured nights. It begins with a very bitter start by Jeramys wife leaving. John is trying to “protect” Val (Jeramys wife) but failed to do so when she was kicked off the last episode.  Tensions run high between John and Jeramy.  Josh is still in a great spot to keep himself in the game. John is really digging a whole for himself with his tribe with his negativity and once everyone on the show finds out that he had said some racist comments as a pro baseball player.  In the first challenge the tribes is a speed and balance activity. Its Wes against his father Keith. It was a good contest between the two and Keith had the lead for most of the game but a slight slip up allowed his son Wes to take the lead and win the challenge, sending Keith and Josh get sent to exile islands. Emotions run extremely high when Keith is taking to his son after the game. The orange team was then choose to get fishing gear as their prize.  John catches a fish thus making himself an asset to have on the orange team. The last challenge of the episode is a maze like field and has a hoop that you need to shoot a ball through. Both teams look strong as the game starts. It gets heated when John is acting and saying very disrespectful things to the other team. There was a lot of lying and plotting this episode but in all I’m glad to see John leave.

Episode 3

Tension really grew this week when the two teams met up and Jeremy realized that Val had been voted off and sent home even though he had created an alliance with John who was supposed to be protecting his wife and vice versa. Jeremy said that the next person who would go home on his team would be John’s girlfriend, but as the episode later revealed, something similar happened. There was conflict that came up between the orange tribe and due to John Rocker revealing some of his true colors it can be identified as affective conflict. Jeremy told his blue team about why everyone vaguely recognized John and his team ended up yelling at the orange team to just vote him off, which they eventually ended up doing! It was silly of John to reveal his alliance with Jeremy and to lie to his face and apologize for letting Val be voted off, when he himself voted for her to leave the island! He also made a comment about another team member being a girl in a negative tone, which didn’t sit well with me as a viewer, and didn’t fly with his team either. John’s ego was so large that he didn’t even use the immunity idol that he had taken with him to tribal council because he was sure that Dale was the person that everyone was referring to as being the next player to leave the island. He’s just an idiot and I’m glad he’s gone. But, for the people left playing the game it could have been a rookie move, sending someone so stupid home so early, they could of kept him around for a while and used him for this physical strength until he became worthless, and then sent him home. Thankfully he’s gone though so we don’t have to watch him look like an asshole.

Conflict in Survivor

That was an entertaining episode! I couldn’t stop laughing at Drew the whole time. Unfortunately for him, the “Kingpin’s” ego got in the way of his million dollars and completely came back to bite him. There were multiple conflicts throughout the episode, connecting it perfectly with chapter 8, Conflict and Cohesion in Groups.

Affective conflict continues with Drew and the Hunahpu tribe as all he seems to want to do is whine and complain about the fishing gear. The girls of Hunahpu are annoyed with Drew’s attitude and the way he conducts himself around camp. Keith also gets himself into an affective conflict with Jeremy when he tells the other tribe members that Jeremy must have the idol behind Jeremy’s back. The other tribe members immediately tell Jeremy what Keith had told them, and this severely pisses of Jeremy. After feeling like they had just formed an alliance and bond through their firefighting careers, Jeremy is outraged at the betrayal from Keith. What seemed like a strong alliance and friendship quickly turned 180 degrees as Jeremy immediately declared he would be gunning for Keith now.

Alec also continues to engage in affective conflict through his communication and bossy attitude towards Baylor. Alec seems to think that since his dad always called him out on his work and made him do work over Drew he can act the same way towards Baylor. Baylor is obviously annoyed and feels uncomfortable with the roles that Alec has established between them.

The biggest and most crucial conflict comes when it is time for Hunahpu to finally vote their first tribe member off. Procedural conflict occurs as almost everyone has a different idea about how the group should go about voting off a tribe member in respect to their future as a tribe. Most of the tribe logically decides that Julie would be the best vote because she really doesn’t bring anything to the table in the challenges or at camp. Drew tries to stir things up when he declares that getting rid of Kelley is the tribe’s best option. Drew sees Kelley as a threat and wants her gone. Unfortunately for Drew, the girls don’t feel the same way and either do the other guys. The girls make a plan to vote Drew off but have a hard time convincing the guys who are all over the place. Jeremy really has no clue what to do and feels like he has no option but to side with the girls and vote Drew off. Smart guy Drew and his manipulation skills apparently didn’t work out like he thought they would and was sent packing.

 

The False Genius

I swear, just last week I thought John Rocker displayed the heights of stupidity.  Boy was I wrong.  Could the people on this show be any dumber? The genius that is Drew was on full display this week.  I can understand fixing a challenge when there is an overarching plan behind the curtain.  Had Drew hatched a plan to vote someone off and was in agreeance with other tribe members then hey brillant move.  Good job establishing power over the tribe.  Of course, as seems to be how this show works, none of this was true.  As soon as he started with the cocky monolouges you knew his time was up.  Maybe these people are all high off of wild berries and mushrooms but man, could the people on this show possibly make any worse decisions?? Guess we will find out next episode.

The biggest example of a concept from this episode was shown by dearly departed friend Drew.  He displayed many of the qualities of destructive conflict.  He consistently spoke with a disrespectful tone towards his tribe mates.  The conversation he attempted to have with Jeremy about voting off Jill (sorry if I got the name wrong)  was all about Drew being destructive.  He was very inflexible and only seeking out a resolution to the issues in which he won.  Drew became so destructive as a tribe member that it threw the entire tribe into a state of chaos. This ultimately led to his dismissal.