Blog 9, Ep. 10: This is Where We Build Trust

I really understood everyone’s logic at the beginning of this episode. Reed really wanted to get Jon out because he felt that Jon thought of himself as the “Alpha Male” and thought too highly of himself. Nataly felt like she could not trust anyone because of what they did to Jeremy last episode. For the first immunity challenge, the prize was the winners could help donate baseball gear to kids in need and have a chance to enjoy baseball food while watching the game. The Yellow Tribe won and Missy was on the losing team, once again, so Reed thought to swap with Missy so she would have a chance to experience one of the prizes from the immunity challenges (and hopefully build an alliance with Missy and Baylor). When the winners were gone, Reed talked to Keith and Wes and convinced them that Jon was useless, they agreed. When that happened, Nataly and Baylor went to search for the idol and Nataly found it. Then when Nataly said she wanted Reed voted off, things started to get confusing. For the individual Immunity challenge, Jon was the first person to give up and Reed won. Reed thought that since Jon stepped down first, it really made him look ‘cocky’ and a little too confident that he wont be voted off. That is when everyone else started to agree with Reed about Jon. At the end of the episode, when the voting was going on, Nataly whispered to Jon to play his idol, so he wouldn’t get voted off. Turns out almost everyone wrote down Jon’s name, so if he had not played his idol he would have been off. Instead of Jon voted off, Wes was voted off with just one vote.

In Chapter 6, the 5th edition, it discusses group motivation. To me, the only group motivation I see throughout this tribe/ team is when the members motivate/ convince others on whom they should vote off. Also, Jon feels motivated because everyone runs to him or Jaclyn as if they are the head of the whole tribe, which really boosts his self-esteem and makes him actually feel like the Alpha Dog. I also think JOn really falls under Shutz’s Theory of interpersonal needs. He wants to feel included and wants to be in control of the tribe and also wants and needs Jaclyn to be there with him the whole time.

Survivor # Three-Squared

This episode of Survivor finally brought out the immunity idols for the first time this season. Both Keith and Jon wisely played their idols to avoid being eliminated. It was a decision that was made at the last second at tribal council thanks to Natalie who encouraged Jon to play it this week instead of holding on to it. Natalie helping Jon provided a turn of events because Natalie throughout the show was saying she wanted Jon to get a taste of his own medicine referencing what transpired with Jeremy last week. Jon, otherwise would have been voted off the show and the show would have been extremely more interesting had the power couple been cut in half. What was Natalie’s motivation for telling Jon and keeping him in the game when she wanted revenge for what happened to Jeremy? I think one of the motivators behind it was her being able to exercise her sense of choice which the book describes as “the shared feeling that a group has the power and ability to make decisions about how to organize and do its job.”  Natalie used her autonomy, wherewithal, and ultimately her sense of choice for the betterment of her group (Baylor and Missy) by getting inside Jon’s head to play the idol. Natalie also motivated Baylor in finding  an idol initially as they teamed up while heading back to camp as the losing team cementing their trust in each other. Obviously Missy is safe since she is Baylor’s loved one forming the three as a power group. Now Jon no longer has his idol and he is aware that the group no longer wants him in the game. Jon is going to have to adjust his game plan if he wants to make it another week. Natalie has a good strategy she’s sticking to Keith was influenced to play his idol once Jon played his. Now Natalie/Baylor have the only idol and they are three strong which is the strongest combination to have at this point.

Survivor Ep. 9

Beginning of the episode recaps with Josh’s elimination. The minority feels weakened and threatened, and darkness seems to be at the end of the tunnel. Keith, who has an idol starts thinking strategy, but emotion may be an underlying reason for the brash plan he’s erected. Get them to vote him off, then play the idol, and come out on top. It’s clever enough to potentially work, but typically, when people try to get clever on this show, it generally follows with them being voted off. The group is reeling however, especially with the loss of their leader so this might be the wisest choice on their plate. We have the food challenge; one team wins it and the other loses. Quite uninteresting at this point. The climax occurred when natalie and jeremy gave up their reward to the traitors. If that doesn’t cement their loyalty, I don’t know what will, because on the pyramid of need, food, water, and comfort are the highest priority for motivation, and that’s the level of living that they embody. A full stomach and a good buzz is a huge gift to reciprocate their votes. So the loser team wallows, other than natalie, and wes mentions that if he’s on the chopping block, he’d appreciate a heads up, which is subtle and smart because he’s a good kid. That potentially creates room for strategy. On the other hand, Natalie doesn’t even hide it, she is candid in expressing that her actions granted leverage over the beautiful couple. Unbelievable amount of ego on this women, or thoughtlessness. We’ll see if it works because a short term favor may seem sweet, but compared to the prize, it pales. Reed, without his paramour by his side, has lost the will to play conservatively. He realizes that he’s now on borrowed time due to the inferior group dynamic and he decides to make waves. Not sure how he intends on doing that, but I’m excited to see how effectively he can utilize his rage and resentment to create rifts in the other groups unyielding ties to each other. Ultimately, the ones that need to worry are the bigger group because you don’t want to mess with an animal you’ve backed into a corner, they’re typically the ones that aim for the jugular. The weaker team loses immunity and it seems that they’ve all but lost, unaware to the potential shimmering ray of hope that could descend on them. The handsome guy realizes that Jeremy will be unable to find the idol and assume that he has it, which will lead to Jeremy thinking that he’s a liar and deceiving them. This might prove fatal for someone unexpected because although, they could just play it safe and get the weak team  to dwindle away, long term, that will be a bad strategy, because they will be the black sheep, the betrayer. They need to think critically about the implications and the ramifications of their situation. After all, in survivor, it doesn’t take much for someone to be the target of the mob. Like a deity showing up in the time of need, their miracle arrives and saves the day. Apparently, the fear the handsome guy concocted over his own well being instilled a paranoia of Jeremy’s wrath, and he must have somehow convinced the mom and daughter to abridge their alliance. They didn’t show exactly how their decisions got swayed because that would’ve lessened the drama of the blindside, if I had to speculate, I’d imagine that either they took the numbers into consideration, including people and idols, and decided that Jeremy didn’t have their best interests or opportunity at heart. Who knows is all that Jeremy will be thinking over the course of his jury assignment and it’ll be interesting to see the conclusion.

Group Motivation

One of the group motivators I saw in this weeks episode was when Reed gave up his winning award to Missy, who hasn’t won an award yet. I believe he did this to satisfy her need of real food, which is one of Maslow’s hierarchy of needs.  He also used this as a way to persuade her in voting off Jon or Keith.

Another thing I saw this week is again with Reed; He has to have a sense of progress in order to feel strong or the alpha male within the tribe. However, if Reed feels a sense of change within the group he tends to panic and tries to persuade others to be on his side.

Finally we all know from the very start that the tribes were playing Extrinsic Rewards such as; Money, real food, and immunity (the idol, neckless, and hidden idols). They are focused on getting their rewards that some don’t think realistically that they vote off the wrong person or want to have revenge on others who are just trying to survive. In the end Wes was voted off the island, only because Jon and his father Keith played their hidden immunity idols. If they didn’t play those idols then Jon would have left, and if Jon played the idol but Keith didn’t then Keith would of been sent home.

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Episode 9

The entire focus of Survivor is to have individuals live without life’s comforts and compete for the chance to win a grand prize. The biggest motivator here is to win the million-dollar prize by being the last one standing. As in our textbook, the participants are motivated by the idea of receiving a reward – whether it is extrinsic or intrinsic.

Extrinsic rewards are given from the environment around a person. The long-term extrinsic reward – and the biggest motivator – is the winning of a million dollars. Every participant on the show hopes to get his or her shot at this. On the other hand, the short term extrinsic rewards would be winning the weekly challenges that result in being given comfort items, such as beddings/shelter equipment or food.

In this episode, the entire tribe is split into two groups where they balance on a beam and try and knock each other off. The host explains that the reward for the winning group is riding on a yacht with food and drinks. In detail, he lists the type of food that will be available to them which elicits a very expressive group reaction. It is clear that every person wants to win in order to eat a good meal, especially because food is so scarce to come by. Another example of an extrinsic reward would be the immunity necklace that is won by a particular individual. In this episode, Baylor surprisingly wins this reward, saving her from elimination.

In order to stay in this game and avoid being eliminated, it’s important to make alliances and form groups to work together. From Schutz’s Theory of Interpersonal Needs, I believe that the need for control and inclusion are why the players work in groups. Strong-headed people such as Jeremy and Jon look to the group for support and firmly believe that by being the ‘top dog’ in the group, they will be able to sway the group decisions. In particular, Jon does this by communicating with Missy – whom I feel has a need for inclusion – to eliminate and blindside Jeremy. I believe that Missy and Baylor have a need for inclusion in their alliances. They seem to want to be accepted by others, enjoying trust and encouragement from their team members – especially from Jon.

Overall, Jon is taking huge steps to become a major player in this game. I was completely shocked when he and Jaclyn voted Jeremy off, especially when Jeremy had just given up the food reward for them. Although I did like Jon and Jaclyn in the beginning of the game, seeing them turn their backs on an alliance and someone who seemed to be a great friend was extremely frustrating.

Blog # 9

In our last class each student shared the experiences that they had in the Tunnel of Oppression assignment. It was interesting that most student were disturbed when someone was whispering in their ears, and they said it was one the most uncomfortable feelings that they had. I had the same feeling, and I was very uncomfortable about the situation. Although some students have never been oppressed or discriminated, but that experience allowed them to understand other people who have been oppressed or discriminated. We experienced that how could be harmful and painful when we are rejected by our relatives and society. How would be different if we were discriminated because of our gender, race, or sexual orientation. One of the student had a photo of Jessica Alba, and she was shocked when she read Jessica Alba’s story. Jessica Alba was bullied and had to have lunch alone. Sometimes it is good to know how these celebrities live and what they have gone through in their life because many people around the world wish they were one of the celebrities, but if they know their stories, they would probably change their minds. At the end, all of us experienced sad feelings, but understood what was it look like to be oppressed or discriminated. Therefore, as we learned through this assignment when we see something, we should say something. After sharing our experience about Tunnel of Oppression, we divided into four groups to discuss about the homeless article that we read. It was interesting that the article was inspiring for most of us, and knowing homeless situations made us to appreciate where we were sitting. Sometimes social comparison boosts our self-esteem and open our eyes what we really have. Instead of focusing what we do not have, it is good to focus what we do have. That was a good lessen for me to appreciate where I am standing in my life now.

The Cycle of Liberation was one of the best article that I have read during the semester because it was kind of look like what happened to me during past few years. Once someone is oppressed, it is not an easy task to be liberated. This intrapersonal change could be challenging, and it needs a lot of effort and self-awareness. I do agree with the writer that the core of liberation is self-love and self-esteem. Someone might think or say that self-love people are selfish, but they are completely different. A self-love person is a person who loves himself, does not have self-destructive behavior, does not self-handicap his performance, and do all the good things in the world for himself. And most importantly, a self-love person wants all the good things in the world for all people around him and people in the world. On the other hand, a selfish person or self-hatred person not only does not like himself, he or she also does not like anybody in the world. How come if I don’t like myself, I would be able to like someone else! I liberated myself from my oppressive society and any oppressive relationships  when I started to study psychology, and during this educational journey, I learned to boost my self-esteem and be a self-love person. As a result, the core of liberation is self-love and self-esteem.

What can you do?

We all attended the tunnel of oppression as it was assigned to us for a reflection essay. We briefly discussed how we felt during the tunnel of oppression and it was interesting to know that we all felt very similar especially the way the debriefing ended. I honestly think we all expected more because during our class session with Dr. Jaime we all have an opportunity to really discuss our points of views. Dr. Jaime knows how to engage everyone to participate and feel comfortable as we are all stating our opinions. During this class period we also split into groups of four and discussed females in stem fields unfortunately no one in our class has studying a stem field so we all simply assumed why females feel the way they do.  As we are soon coming to an end of this semester Julian handed test to everyone the same test we all had in the beginning of the semester. I personally think it would be easier to take test as soon as class started to get it over with because most of us hate taking test especially if they don’t affect our grade. I feel that I don’t put much interest and attention on test like the one we had and I simply rush them but if I had them at the beginning of class I would do my best to answer the questions.

This week’s readings talked about ways to deal with the liberation of oppression. I honestly didn’t know such cycle existed to help one liberate all those new feelings we create when we are exposed to issues and topics of oppression. The cycle of liberation showed ways we can seek new paths for creating social change and release. There’s eight stages in the cycle of liberation one can enter the cycle at any point, through the slow process of development and there is no specific beginning or end point because one is never done and the cycles repeat themselves over and over. I want to say that I find myself in the waking up stage as I’m sure many of us in class do because we have been exposed to so much knowledge in just few months. Hopefully one day I can enter in to the creating change stage to help other join the cause. The second article on how to interpret oppression behavior discusses how we must eliminate intolerance to such behaviors caused by others who are not educated on oppression. The statement I most liked was “No matter what form it takes or who does it, we must all take action to stop intolerance when it happens.” This for me is very powerful because know that I’m aware of the consequences of not stopping someone for certain actions of behavior towards others it empowers me to continue with the battle and fight against it to improve oppression. I find that know I’m more open toward understanding other racial groups that before I found disturbing.

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Blog#9: What Can You Do?

Last class began slightly differently. Julian’s “activity” came last rather than in the beginning. We first discussed the Tunnel of Oppression event and the thoughts and feelings it brought out. I believe we all agreed that there wasn’t much participation in the discussions and the leaders didn’t encourage much talking. However, the experience made us all look at things from another point of view and realize how real these occurrences are.  Afterwards we talked about the Lipstick and Labcoats article. We got into groups and elaborated on certain points. I thought it was great that we went over it because it refreshed the issues in my mind. I enjoyed hearing what the guys had to say as well as other females because our ideas differ. Unfortunately, we didn’t have any STEM majors from females so we couldn’t exactly ask why they joined the major and how they felt. Either way, I learned a lot from that article and was not exactly shocked to hear why females entered into STEM fields. Before our “activity” from Julian, we mentioned one thing we learned from the Homeless articles. They were all eye openers for me. Although I have to work very hard and sometimes it feels stressful, I can’t even imagine what homeless students go through every day. Lastly, we were given an assessment from Julian that was also given to us at the beginning. I think many students rushed through it because it didn’t affect our grades.

 

The last topic to be covered next week is what we can do to enact change. Although we had two readings, before I read either one I realized that I have been speaking up slightly more when I hear offensive things. Simply taking this class gave me the courage to speak up. The first reading was the Cycle of Liberation, which made me think of the Cycle of Socialization. As with the cycle of socialization, we go through stages at our own pace and choose our direction to enact change. Seeing the cycle of liberation and reading the article gave me hope and confidence. If we show more people then we have more of a chance to positively change society. What I love the most is that anyone can enter this cycle at any point in time at any place. As the waking up stage stated, I am starting to feel a difference on myself simply from the awareness that this class has given me. I have also noticed myself solidifying my beliefs and discarding the negative one, as with in the getting ready phase. This article really spoke to me because I feel myself beginning to experience parts of this cycle. It isn’t as easy to reach out, build a community, or actually act, but now I feel as though I have the tools to start. It is one thing to enact change, but it is another thing to maintain it. It needs to almost become a way of life. The second article covered the next steps in order to interrupt oppressive behavior. This sounds easier than it is was my first reaction. It is so much easier at first to join in on the oppressive behavior, but after awareness it becomes easier to confront the behavior. What many don’t realize is that saying nothing is a way of supporting the oppression in a way. I used to do this because I didn’t always know what to do. This article mentions education as the first step in enacting change. I agree that this is the first major step because I already notice a change in myself. I found the author’s tips for responses helpful. For example, telling someone that a joke is not funny or organizing a pro-diversity event are ways to enact change. Overall, I can say I learned a lot and wouldn’t change it for anything! I can only hope that I can keep up the courage, join forces with others, and enact change.