November 2

I find it so disturbing to see the issues young girls face in todays society, as we dig deeper on the issue however, it seems the younger kids are the sooner they start to dress sexy. I know that now a days on social media girls compete for  things like how many followers they can get and hitting over 100 likes is a big deal to their self esteem. it  bothers me because it seems to only get worse and everywhere are youth look models are getting skinnier and less dressed is better.  I must admit that I sometimes myself find myself in a rut over what to wear but nit to be sexy but to be what I feel is presentable. in my family we didn’t grow up dressing provocative and at family partys of one of our cousins is dressed a bit to revealing we have no problem being straight up and saying you look slutty. I know it might seem wrong but in the chapter it talks about what parents should ask about why do they feel they need to dress in such a way however i feel if the parents have no idea why their daughters are dressing in such a way then how can their kids know. its just me but my family is more direct and we will say that shirts too tight or you look like you have a camel toe in those jeans i know it might sound harsh but it works for us.