Diving into the World of LGBT (Revised)

Hello and good afternoon,

This week we dive into the world and communities of the LGBT.  As mentioned in previous blogs for the past few weeks, I have played the “Lurker” and watched events unfold from afar. I have followed a few groups while,  The Los Angeles LGBT Center, LGBT News and Human Rights Campaign being the favorite choices of the many sites available.

I have to start this article by saying that I was advised to use an alias account to research this topic, but I was reluctant to do so as I felt that I should be representing myself, and not a fictitious character. It almost felt wrong to be someone that I am not, or to mislead others into believing a lie. So with that said,  with my personal Twitter account, I became a follower of all three of the groups mentioned before.

It came as a massive shock to how much SPAM and Male hook-up sites were received almost immediately. As one that is researching the well-being of a community and how they fight for equal rights, I must say that I was set back by this type of response.  What I thought was supposed to be a community center for the LGBT of Los Angeles is more of a trolling site.  I have never experienced such a personal violation in my life. It never dawned on me that men were so free and eager to showing private parts to complete strangers over the internet. I mentioned the encounter on another feed and asked if that was normal? Being greeted with hesitation and complete dismissal, and being told that a straight man had no business being a part of a gay community came as no real surprise, it was just the tone used and the choice of language. As I mentioned before that, I have received this type of rejection before.

Part of me is saying to myself, “what were you thinking”? While the other half of me is thinking, “what’s the big deal”? If one does not understand the truth of a subject, then one must dive deeper into that topic. What I do know is that there is an entire world of LGBT that is screaming words of equality and unity. Other words ring out as well, like peace and love, and freedom for everyone. I am not going to go deep into this, but I will say, that road is a two-way street. There is a gap that is between the heterosexual world and the homosexual world, and it come together equally by BOTH sides, and not just one adapting to the other.

For the next couple of weeks, I will still be diving into the world of LGBT, but I will stick to official pages and focus on the health issues that arise day to day.

Well as I always say, keep smiling, make someone laugh out loud and have a fantastic day.

CDR

 

Just a little note to my many followers, in no way shape or form do I ever intend to offend or insult anyone for any reason. The topic chosen is highly sensitive and can be taken the wrong way, and I apologize in advance.

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New Family Dynamic

When I first started reading chapter seven I was having a hard time taking the content seriously. The chapter discussed how Teens were choosing to get pregnant due to shows like Teen Mom and The Secrete Life of the American Teenager. I think if anything these shows depicted the hardships that come along with being a teenage mother and how having sex is an adult activity that can lead to adult consequences. Just like the chapter we read on violence due to media, I do not believe that teenage pregnancy or divorce rates have anything to do with what people are seeing in the media. I think that those type of lifestyle chooses are due to peoples own decisions and that by seeing how glamours it is to be a divorced parent in no way will make someone want to go out and file for divorce. I can understand concerns that parents may have about media  (as shown in the New York Times video) but I believe that just watching a television program or listening to a specific song will not change the values a child holds dear nor will it make a teenager want to go out and have a baby. I think that children learn by example and the best example they have is their parents.

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Session 10

I thought the video Sex, Drugs, and Gore was very interesting. I thought it was funny how one mother said she thought it was not appropriate for her daughter to buy Prince’s Purple Rain album. Then why let your kid buy it?? Whose fault is that? I get that some music can be pretty graphic, but you can control what children listen to. I know my parents did not let me listen to certain songs when I was younger, and once I listened to those songs later, I realized why they did not let me hear them. How about instead of criticizing everything, you talk to your kids about the songs and why they’re inappropriate.You can only control so much of what they listen to, but you can talk to them as much as you want.

As for the sexualization of girls, I thought this website was wonderful. Not only does it provide the evidence for the sexualization of women, but it also provides tips for parents and girls. The most important tip I saw was just talking with them. I am not a parent, but I have a younger sister who just started high school. I always talk to her about appearance, boys, and fitting in. I always tell it like it is because I want her to see that this world is not all pink and pretty, but there are bigger issues going on in society like the sexualization of girls. I also loved the provided websites.

Sternheimer brings up the whole Teen Mom and 16 and Pregnant issues, and how these shows idolized the teens pregnancies. I had a public speaking class once, and one time sometime gave a speech about those tv shows. I remember she said that the girls in the show got paid an outrageous amount for each episode, so this can be seen as idolization in a way. I always thought the show was dumb and not exactly a great model for teens. Also, I think there is a movie on Netflix about the whole 17 teens getting pregnant at the same time. I have never seen it, but I did not know that it was a true story from Massachusetts.

Seeing Things In A Different Light

20151025_141713When I first heard we were going to Santa Rosa Island, I will admit I was both excited and nervous. A weekend away from civilization sounded nice but there was a big chance that I wouldn’t be able to get any work done, which stressed me out a bit. But when we got to the island, my nerves dwindled down. Maybe this trip would be good for me. And I was right. I had a blast being away from everything and being one with nature. After all the stress I’ve been under to complete all the assignments, write papers, study for tests, etc, it was good for me to get away from civilization. I was able to relax and actually think about my life.20151024_114912

And the faculty-lead sessions were eye-opening as well. I learned to see things in a different light. A better and creative light. To take something that is usual looked at for scientific purposes and see the beauty and creativity of the object. To see the cliff sides more than just millions of years of history but a beautiful sculpture made from millions of years of the ocean hitting against the sand.

I also learned to celebrate diversity. Not only in the human race but nature in general. And I better understood evolution and how it varies from place to place. The different species of plants and animals that are on Santa Rosa didn’t just appear there one day. It’s all because of survival of the fittest.

Both of these lessons have the common core of seeing things differently than originally thought. Everyone sees everything differently. Reasons can vary from past experiences, education, way of thinking, etc. For example, one may see this trip as a getaway from the stresses of everyday life while another may see it as a burden because they’ve already had a bad experience on retreats. It is up to everyone to understand everyone’s differences.

“Could a greater miracle take place than for us to look through each other’s eyes for an instant?” ― Henry David Thoreau, Walden

Going to the island I feel as though I was served an abundance of ideas. Maybe not for all students but for me I loved all of it I couldn’t get enough and wanted more to learn. Some majors despised the island while others loved it. In some strangely crazy way, every major was incorporated in this trip whether it be the math to see an estimated time frame to see if plants will grow to the art and seeing the beauty in the surroundings.

 

Being a biology major, there were so many opportunities to choose from when it comes down selecting something to your research liking. While selecting one is hard since there were very few things on the anatomy of the body I am just going to make a sharp left and talk about the second best thing I am good at and that’s botany. This is a very strange field I find myself excelling in due to the fact that I absolutely hate gardening I do not have the patience to keep watering and watching the growth I just want to see the final product as soon as I possibly can.

 

I think both myself and my lab professor already who spoke out at our roundtable could benefit from looking at the restoration of plants due to the hundreds of species of Bees. We could benefit in more than one way we get to see and discover the various species of bees and their interactions around plants. The second best part is that affiliates with how bees play a major role in not just the United States but on the islands along the coast where there are various endangered plants.

 

This research question will raise various eyebrows because we’re talking about bees and plants. They are both deadly and boring at the same time to the point where no one really thinks about these situations and just avoid all topics about these two together. However, this will spark the interests of other staff because it will solve a few answers like how plants continue to disperse and maybe even an answer to colony collapse disorder.

A Saturday in Santa Rosa Island

“We are all connected.  To each other, biologically. To the earth, chemically. To the rest of the universe, atomically.”

― Neil deGrasse Tyson, “Symphony of Science: We Are All Connected”

Going out to Santa Rosa Island I was very overwhelmed by how much nature could be left “untouched. ” Waking up the next day from the withdraw period of no technology, us surfers were left with a very busy day. Starting the day we could tell two things some needed their sleep more than others and who didn’t mind getting dirty at all. After breakfast, we were sent out and into our pods to explore the island.

 

Our first trip was by a 4- wheeler and it was a pretty long ride to the nursery. This is where the seeds of the endangered plants were being kept as a plan of a restoration project on the island. I had spoken to a couple of the botanists and discovered that there are various opuntia (cactus) species out in the island. Also to my surprise there is 100% no sage on the island only sage shrubs. I found this kind of ironic because the majority of the plants at a school where found on the island and so where those planters at school lying to us? As the rest of my group arrived by 4 – wheeler we were divided into two more groups to separate acorns and plant the state grass also known as California Purple Grass. Planting the grass was actually very relaxing and something that was pretty easy to do to the point of me considering if I wanted to completely switch my major.

 

Moving on a bit further into the day we got to discover the topic of art. At first I was a bit spectacle on how could art possibly be in the island in the worst place there is nothing to really draw or mold or even take a picture of it was just shrubbery everywhere. Boy was I wrong- going through our hike we where told to pretty much step out of our bodies and see everything from another perspective. I found this pretty hard when they would say, “ look at this plant.” To me it was more than just this plant- it was sweet fennel but to others it was a spice or a stick or even worst just a plant. However, these where the perspectives we were taught to see from when going on the island.

 

These two when going through my day stuck out the most more than just because it wasn’t all silence and nodding of a head. These I found to be connected in the strangest way. Art was in botany and no it is not a Karate Kid cutting and shaping trees art form (bonsai). There is a type of beauty in nature where we take it for granted. We can plant something that honestly is a pain just to collect a seed with the thickness of a needle but it will grow and it will become beautiful. When that plant grows it will be appreciated by someone else for either its beauty or repulsiveness.

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“We are all connected. To each other, biologically. To the earth, chemically. To the rest of the universe, atomically.” Neil deGrasse Tyson, “Symphony of Science: We Are All Connected”

Santa Rosa is apart of the Channel Islands which contains quite a history. When we first arrived on the island we walked through a small portion and discussed the Chumash heritage and when the ranchers settled. This brief history lesson prepared us for our Saturday field trips with the faculty.

My first expedition of the day started with Professor Matt Fermanski his field of study is sculpture making. He began by explaining how science connects to every aspect of education including art. In order to capture the true essence of art one has to look at the history of science first. Professor Matt took us the part of the island where the fresh water creek met the sea salt water of the ocean. I couldn’t help but think what a beautiful thing to see two bodies of water meeting and intertwining. He said it is importance to know why and how something works is truly needed to understand the beauty of what we are seeing. He then told us about on of his pieces he did that he let the ocean waves create the image. He had used booies with LED lights attached and thrown them in the ocean. Than using a camera positioned on the sand he was able to capture pictures to than create larger images. This is when I truly saw that science and art are intertwined. He had used the motion of nature and allowed it to create art.

The next journey was with Professor Allison Alvarado who focused her study’s on the process of speciation. She took us around and showed us a variety of birds that call Santa Rosa their home. She taught us how to look and listen for the different birds and then how to identify them. She reminded us that being on an island requires birds to adapt to their surroundings, it does not happen over night nor years. It takes decades for birds to learn a new skill then to pass it on to their young which we call adaption. Her lesson stuck with me because I learned the birds on islands have very different behavioral traits and characteristics then birds on the main land and over time they learn to live in such environments.

The last lesson or adventure would have to have been my favorite. We did species data with Cos right along side the shoreline. This by far was the highlight of my trip because we were physically doing research and having so much fun while doing so. We were able to use clam guns and collect the different creatures from the sand and enter what we found in data sheets. We started in the dry sand and worked vertically into the water collecting data with clam guns every 10 meters. In doing so we came across blood worms and sand crabs we had to count them all and write our results. At the end of this process the data collected would be used to keep tract of the numbers of habitats on Santa Rosa. This again was a reminder of the life that the land holds and how it can prosper when left untouched by civilization.

To See Through Someone Else’s Eyes

We all see the world with a different perspective, we all have different opinions of life and our surroundings. When we went to the Island the faculty there had a diversity of perspectives of their own views of the Island. It was nice to see how different the Island was to everyone for Cause the Island was his home, where his daughter was growing up, where he lived with his wife and where he could help the environment. For Matt he saw the Island as a work of art, and it was his muse where he was inspired to create art, it was also a place he went to when he needed to be isolated but at the same time not alone. He felt like it was just him and nature, where no one could disturb him. As for Allison she saw the Island as what it was nature and she saw it as a way to see what she loved most, which was the birds. By being on the Island she got to see so many different species of birds in their natural habitat without having to go through so much effort to find them they usually just came to her and she could watch them and analyze their DNA and the structure of their bodies. Though they had different perspectives of the Island they wanted the same thing which was to keep the Island safe from further destruction and to restore the Island to its natural beauty.

Though all the perspectives were different they shared one goal and that was to recover the Island and in a way the all saw the Island in a loving way. Because they all deeply cared for the Island and would fight to protect it. The Island has become a personal home for all of them, mostly because they all thought of it as a safe haven. Where they believed they could take a break from life and enjoy the isolation and the beauty of nature and most importantly life in the moment and make every moment matter.

One project that would be in the interest of Allison, Cause and Matt would be to grow more plants. It would benefit Cause because by having more plants the Island can nurture itself and would, overall be more healthy. Also if it was healthier there could be agriculture in the near future, which would be good for the Island instead of the dry land it has now. The way it would benefit Allison is my having more trees and plants more birds would migrate to the Island giving her a larger variety of species of birds. For Matt having more plants would increase the beauty of the Island giving him more inspiration to work from and create more art. Also having more plants adds to the freedom of isolation and helps add more diversity to the view of the Island and the inner perspective one has about different things in life. The fact that when you really think about it we are all unique because of the way we look at life.