Blog Post: A Better Future

Personal vision statement:

I want to become a respected and successful police office. I want to use my platform to benefit and influence other people. I also would like to achieve self actualization and become the best person that I can become. I want to have many meaningful relationships in my life. Ideally, I would like to live in close proximity to my family. I am physically fit. I envision making a lasting positive impact in my community. Lastly I want to live a happy, fulfilling, and peaceful life.

 

 

 

 

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Blog #5

In last week’s class Julian started off by giving a power point on how to write and cite a paper in APA format. I found his power point very helpful, especially because I have a couple of papers that are coming up due. The rest of the class we focused on finishing up the presentations covering the challenges surrounding African Americans. After concluding the presentations Jaimie conducted an activity which had to do with the readings by Hurtado and Torres. We were asked to write on three note cards and put them on a Venn diagram which compared Hurtado and Torres’ readings, that activity showed how although both Torres and Hurtado were speaking on the same subject, they both had different perspectives and viewpoints which they stressed in the readings. After that we were put into groups and worked away around the room answering a variety of questions that had to do with being a Latina/o in higher education. My group consisted of myself, Scott and Shahdad, it was quite interesting to see that although we were all of different ethnicity we in a way understood what it was like to be minority like Latinos are. Even if I was the only Latina in the group, Shahdad, being of a different culture also understood barriers that I had to undergo like struggling with the language. I really like being put in a group with very different ethnicities it felt like I got an understanding from various points of views, which is always something great to experience.

 

This week’s readings were somewhat surprising to me, it is crazy to see that although people may have any type of disability they don’t give up on trying to live their lives as normal as possible. Sure there are things that are physically impossible for them to do, but in a way I feel like they find that as a motivation to find a way to accomplish that and say that they never gave up. These articles really opened my eyes to see that disabled people are not given the attention they deserve. I feel like there can be more done in order to provide disabled people with a more welcoming attitude. Whether it be simple things like getting them involved in things that they would normally would not be a part of or providing them with essential needs to help them feel like they are equal to any other person. Although I have a lot of experience with working with disabled people as a caregiver/ life coach, these articles made me open up my eyes and seeing what real struggles and differences people with disabilities have. I think that people with any type of disabilities deserve to be treated and have the same rights as any other person and I feel like this is not the case today, so some sort of action needs to be taken in order to make that happen.

 

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Disabilities Blog 6

Last week’s class covered additional material from the previous class on the challenges that African Americans faced. I had forgotten that we were supposed to finish the remainder of the sections from the reading so I felt a bit behind. Dr. Hoffman gave everyone an opportunity to collect information on our topic again, which was really nice for me, as I had forgotten my notes. I have to say that so far for me African American struggles has been my favorite section for the reason that Dr. Hoffman introduced material that exposed a different perception of African history . What I enjoyed the most during the debate was that everyone proposed a question towards the end of each section and that was stimulating and thought-provoking.  Figuring out proposals or questions that may solve a dilemma or at least propose a change is educating and encouraging because you are forced to think of solutions that maybe no one has thought of or even questioned. I think it’s an excellent way to add additional thinking after each weeks reading.

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I selected this image because often times we forget to recognize that respecting diversity and saying you approve and understand others also should include people with disabilities. There was a statement used by the author of What do disabilities have to do with diversity?, that said, “historically people with disabilities either have been categorized by the type of disability and thus been thought to have nothing in common with people who have other disabilities or worse yet ha not even been acknowledge as participating members of our society”. This is true for most people that have been abused by society regarding their disability because they don’t know where they belong even today in this generation. I worked with children that had developmental disabilities for almost five years and often times they discriminated them as much or more than minority groups. Some of the youth that I worked with were mentally stable but physically incapable and when I would take them out for trips or to grocery stores they would tell me how uncomfortable they felt. I think schools should expose young children to others that face conditions that make them different to avoid discrimination. Or even create community programs in schools that gives extra credit for those who participate in activities or community work with disabled children and adults. By doing this hopefully future generations will improve on how they view and respect those who suffer illnesses that disables them mentally and physically.  We have made improvements on how society treats other ethnic groups hopefully we can all work on bettering how everyone treats and thinks of disabled children and adults. Protesting for media to advertise characters with disabilities will also help  improve this awareness. It will also help those who think that because they have disabilities they don’t have beauty.

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Survivor blog 02-Episode 2 Ch. 3

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In episode 2 of Survivor, Blood vs Water, a lot of the personal issues between the tribe members start to come out. This episode really starts to show some of the tribe members true colors when it comes to communication and personal relationships. The stress of competition and the desire to win has really came into the minds of the tribes. Both the Coyopa and the Hunahpuh have shown intensity while working through the problems of the competition.

When a member of the blue team loses the flint, the team kind of turns on him. They all kind of put him down and see him as a weak point in the tribe instead of an asset. The flint is seen as a very important tool in terms of survival and losing it has put his reputation and overall experience in jeopardy. In chapter three, it explains The Fundamental Interpersonal Relationship Orientation Theory. This theory focuses on three needs that most of us share. They are, inclusion, control, and affection. All of these needs were definitely exhibited in this episode. The need for inclusion was definitely shown when the member of the blue team felt pushed away and kind of disowned for losing the flint. That would make anybody feel the need to be included again. Especially when you were included at one time, but now you are not due to your own accord.

Towards the beginning of episode 2, Baylor and Josh have issues with their alliance. During the tribal council, Josh votes for for Baylor in order to try and show everyone else that he has not formed an alliance with her. This shows how far he is willing to go in order to maintain control of his relationship with her and the advantages he gains from their alliance. Later, on night 3, Josh talks with Baylor and shows his sorrow and his reasoning for voting for her. He reassures her of their alliance and shows his affection for their friendship. The need for affection can be very strong especially in other parts of the show. Especially when more serious relationships are involved or develop.

Blog Post#5: Ability/ Disability

Our last class session began with an APA lesson plan through a power point by Julian. I thought it was good material to know but it went too fast to really write anything down. However, he did say he would email the power point, which would be good to have and very useful. Afterwards, we continued to discussion and summary of the article by Jenkins. I thought the article was fairly easy to understand but summarizing in class provided clarity. We then discussed the similarities and differences between Hurtado’s article and Torres’. I had already done so in my blog post so it was a refresher as well as a chance to think about other similarities and differences I didn’t before class. The activity that I enjoyed the most was answering questions regarding the two articles relating to our experiences, first in small groups, then as a class round robin style. I enjoyed it because it gave me a chance to get to know other students who I hadn’t gotten a chance to talk to much before. I was able to put myself in their perspective. My small group was an interesting dynamic because only one of us truly understood the Latino/a experience, but nonetheless I feel like I learned a lot and enjoyed simply making small talk with each other.  It is always a pleasure to hear everything that the students in class have to say.

 

The new readings assigned were about Abilities/Disabilities and how they relate to diversity, especially on college campuses. I have become increasingly aware of this topic on college campuses due to the various changes they have made, such as being able to open doors by pressing a button or the “Accommodations for Students with Disabilities” section on class syllabi. Although I have seen the changes made on campus I didn’t realize the struggles in depth that students with disabilities might face in the college campus setting. Although many achievements have been made so far, as mentioned in the article by Bryan and Myers, there are still more needed. I believe that, in order to make changes, other students and faculty do need to understand more fully the various types of disabilities and what can be done to accommodate everyone. The articles clarified some of those things for me and I liked to be able to learn about personal experiences in the article “What Do Disabilities Have to Do with Diversity?” I was already aware that certain students are treated differently, in fact everyone is treated differently, but I hadn’t thought much about the topic of Ableism. The article on Ableism made me realize the ways that people with disabilities have been oppressed. This topic was never discussed in schooling growing up. In a way I feel as though it was pushed under the rug. I have been around plenty of people with disabilities, physical and intellectual, and I wish there was a way to educate every one of what they go through and how we can make college a more welcoming environment. That being said, I truly enjoyed reading the articles this week.

I chose this image because it provides an overall view of disabilities and what can be done to accommodate everyone. For me this image helped me understand the various disabilities and encompassed the idea that I had been unaware of the ideas expressed in the readings.

 

blog post #2 actions vs accusations

In the third episode actions vs. accusations the show started off with both teams arguing and showing who were the possible targets for the episode but I felt like this episode focused more on the Coyopa tribe. Right away I thought that the control need was shown with John and Baylor because both were trying very hard to be allies with the rest of their tribe and they were so confident that they would side with them. I thought that John and Baylor also showed the inclusion need because they  both were worried that  their was a possibility that they could be the next one eliminated. Their was defiantly a lot more of an attempt to take control of the group in coyopa’s  tribe then in Hanahpu but I think that’s just because Hanahpu has won all of the challenges so their really isn’t that much stress or tension in Hanahpu’s tribe.

Even though John and Baylor both act like the autocrat by dominating the group’s choice to vote one another out I was very surprised that in the end the tribe ended up voting out John.  When Coyopa lost the second challenge in the episode and John started talking back it instantly made him the under-personal one of the group. At that point everyone really didn’t like him or saw a need to keep him around even though he was the athletic one of the group. Unlike John I thought  that Jeremy was the over-personal one of Hanahpu because everything that guy does seems to give  him more status in his group. Also, when Jeremy won the last challenge of the episode everyone was so caught up celebrating about it that no one really seems to see that his reasons are not for the greater good of the tribe, its just ensure more time for himself. Over all, this episode revealed  a lot more of the groups dynamics and whether they were headed in the right path or down a steep slope.

 

Survivor Blog #2

In the second episode of survivor  we are starting to get to know each person a little more and see how their personalities begin to come to light. At the beginning of the episode twin sister Natalie opens up about how she feels not having her sister on the show, she is upset and says how she has never been apart from her the team shows great support and help her get through that rough time in the challenge.

Later in the show team player Jon from the hunnaphu team lost the flint to start the fire and I believe this is when he showed being a confessor after he admitted to what he did and took full responsibility for his actions.

In the immunity challenge both teams are being big supporters of the two competitors.  When Baylor went against her mom I felt like she was an attention seeker because when she busted her lip she began to cry and I felt it was done to get the attention from her mom and so she would feel sorry for her. It seemed to work and distract her mom from the challenge and Baylor took the win!!

I feel like in this episode we are starting to see how people are beginning to be more self centered and more selfish I mean there is only one winner at the end!!!!

Survivor Blog #2 Episode #2

This episode starts out with a brief overview of the previous episode. It seems like Josh continues to put himself is really good situations were everyone is telling him things and he is keeping himself safe from being voted off that way. Watching this I can already tell some group dynamics and member roles in the tribes. Josh for instance seems to be what Schutlz calls a social member. On the other hand John is more of an oversocial member who is always trying to impress and attract attention to himself. John and his girlfriend are up against each other in the first challenge of the episode. John lost and is now on exile islands with one of the other tribes members. John is very upset he lost. Natalie is really upset and emotional that her sister was voted off last episode and all the laddies in her tribe are comforting her and keeping her in a positive mind set.  Everyone finds out that John said racist things as a pro baseball player which makes everyone like him a lot less. I enjoyed watching the physical challenge “sumo at sea.” Val was the person who was voted off this episode and i agree with it.

Post #2 Episode 3. Action vs. Accusation

        In this episode Action vs. Accusation things start to change more when Val was eliminated off Coyopa. Since John did not protect Jeremy’s wife his plan now is to eliminate Julie for revenge. John now feels the need for inclusion in his group because he catches fish for his group and he thinks that catching food for his group will give him less chances of being eliminated. Jeremy is a social member in the Hanahpu tribe because he gets along with everyone in his tribe and at the same time he can work independently. In my opinion I think that Jeremy is playing this game very smart because he knows how to approach everyone in his group and he has less chances of being eliminating since the beginning. In the Coyopa tribe Baylor has the need for control because she feels like everyone else in her tribe can do what she wants them to do. When it comes to voting people off the group Baylor tells everyone who to vote off and she feels like everyone listens to her when in the other hand they do the opposite without her knowing. Baylor also is the autocrat because she wants to dominate everyone.

The need for affection comes into the group when the Coyopa tribe is up for elimination and Jaclyn tells the guys that girls shouldn’t be the target that the guys should step in and vote out guys. I think that Jaclyn is right because the guys plan was to vote out Baylor and Jaclyn would be the only girl in the tribe. A personal member in the Coyopa tribe would be Dale because he doesn’t really give his opinion in any of the members. Dale has no emotion and just wants to continue the game without being involved in the drama. Dale would also be passive aggressive in his tribe because he goes with what is said in his tribe and doesn’t argue. I’m looking forward to the next episode to see who else will be eliminated in these groups.

Look at that tribe role…

With the contents of Chapter 3: Group Membership still fresh on my mind, it was very interesting to watch Episode 2 and see how the tribe members are beginning to exhibit needs and take on roles within their tribes. However, it should be noted that this new perspective on the episode does not negate the fact that course concepts from Chapter 2 are still very much alive and well. It is evident that both tribes are still in the process of forming but, they are now both clearly moving towards the next, more dramatic stage of storming.

As primary tension decreases, tribe members are beginning to become more vocal about their opinions. An example of this occurred when the Hunahpu tribe won their reward challenge and tried to barter with Jeff Probst to get more flint. When Probst offered a tough ultimatum, the tribe launched into an animated debate about whether or not to surrender their fishing gear in return for more flint. Tribe members interjected strong, decided opinions that lacked much of the initial shyness and civility. Welcome to the storming stage, Hunahpu.

This reward challenge gave a lot of insight into, not only the Hunahpu tribe’s development, but also into the specific needs and roles of certain members. I found it interesting that, for the Hunahpu tribe, Reed has been the one to step in and do the rock-paper-scissors duel for both of the reward challenges that have come up. In addition, Reed was also the one to initially pose the idea of bartering with Jeff Probst. In this way, it seems to me that Reed is assuming what Benne and Sheats refer to as a group task role. Specifically, I think Reed is acting as an initiator-contributor. He gets the group started and, he proposes ideas in order to help the group accomplish certain goals (i.e. starting fire).

It follows that Benne and Sheats have also identified a number of other roles. Another category of potential member roles is group maintenance roles. These roles have to do with relationship building, getting along, and encouraging cooperation as the group moves toward a shared goal. In the Hunahpu tribe, I have identified Missy as being an encourager-supporter in her tribe. In the first episode, Missy can be seen praising group members and agreeing with their input and, in the second episode, she can be seen listening empathically to Natalie as she cried about her sister’s absence. I think these examples can also be related to Schutz’s theory of interpersonal needs for, Missy seems to exhibit a need for affection.

When Missy and her daughter, Baylor, were pitted against one another for the immunity challenge, the initial banter seemed rather passive-aggressive. Both appeared to exhibit confidence but, everything changed when Baylor’s lip was busted. Missy’s demeanor instantly changed and, she started acting like an overpersonal member who had become passive about the group’s goal. Baylor was upset and, her passive-aggressive behavior turned toward the more assertive side. When this happened, Missy lost and, Baylor was able to win a point for the Coyopa tribe.

In this instance, the season’s theme of Blood vs. Water was tested once again. At least for Missy, it seems that her blood ties to Baylor were stronger than the “water” that joined her to her fellow tribe members. It will be interesting to see if Baylor’s loyalties end up being towards her tribe or towards her blood relative as well.