Who Will Get The Votes?

This episode started with something very unexpected: a merger! The two tribes would be merging into one. Many celebrated since they reconnected with their loved ones and all enjoyed a huge feast. Before the feast was over, battle plans were already being drawn. These opposing plans were put into place by Jeremy and Josh, both in fear they would be voted out at the next tribal meeting. They wanted each other gone, so they tried desperately to get other tribe members on their side and thus vote the opposing person off.

They used a number of verbal and non verbal behaviors to sway these tribe members and it was very interesting to watch their strategies. Considering the million dollar prize awaiting the winner, both Josh and Jeremy felt they had a lot at stake. I noticed both of them, in soliciting to the tribe members, use a few of the dimensions of team talk in order to identify with that person. In fact, almost all of the dimensions were used by one or the other. A good example of how these were used occurred when talking to their prospective alliances. Josh wanted to make clear to them that he wasn’t a threat to them and that they are on equal footing, yet highlighted how Jeremy is a strong competitor and how knocking him out of the competition right now could be a mutual benefit. Josh and Jeremy also used words like ‘us’ and ‘we’ in their conversations to identify with the tribe members.

I also noticed many of the defensive behaviors on display during this alliance building. Strategy was a major one. Jeremy and Josh were trying to get tribe members to vote a certain way and the true motivations for this action wasn’t to help that tribe member, but rather to protect themselves from elimination. This was a form of manipulation that they used. Also, control was a major defensive behavior that was used. Josh was trying to hold on to the position he and Reed held within their tribe before the merger. Josh and Reed saw Jeremy as a threat to the alliances they had with others and needed to impose their solution (getting rid of Jeremy) onto the other tribe members in order to maintain control. The episode was very interesting and the way Josh and Jeremy interacted with the other tribe members really helped me see a realistic application of the chapter content.

Behavior of the group

So last week I talked about the roles that have developed as the days roll by. This week I want to discuss how nonverbal concepts can be just as important as those verbally said. Chapter six discusses challenges groups can run into, some of the non verbal environments and differences there seem to be among all types of groups.

This weeks episode was different than any Survivor that I’ve heard of; Julie just up an quit the whole thing. After she hid a bunch of trail mix in her purse and didn’t tell anyone, Julie wasn’t trusted by any of the other members. In past episodes, I don’t even think I saw Julie ever compete in any of the team challenges. Unfortunately, the first thing I wanted to talk about was language challenges between group members. Julie not telling anyone  she had trail mix was a mistake however I feel like it goes back to another issue I’ll discuss soon. But first a concept called bypassing which is a form of miscommunication that happens when someone misses what the other person was trying to convey. I feel like this occurred when Julie took the trail mix. She should have shared but she should have shared with her alliance members; However I don’t think that Julie was in a place to explain that she took the time to gather the food and save it to last over several days, this group has already seen problems with conservation. I could see why she wouldn’t want just a piece of a little handful. But as a result her teammates started to use offensive, excluding and discouraging types of language. They all completely disregarded the fact that Julie was within hearing distance and talked about her and put her down. It was unnecessary and unproductive.

The other thing  wanted to discuss was how there was more of a defensive environment in place on Survivor. Jeremy is making most of the decisions and if you go against the flow, AKA Josh, he wants you out. I feel that  a supportive environment would have allowed Julie to express her concerns without people just thinking like they did, that she was a selfish person etc. They attacked her personal character over trail mix, jesus eat a snickers!

Survivor Blog Post #6

At the beginning of the sixth episode of survivor, the Hunahpuh tribe met with Jeff in order to receive a new bag of rice because they had run extremely short. However, in order for them to earn the rice, Jeff requires them to trade in their comfort items which would leave them vulnerable in rainy weather. In individual interviews, Jeremy expresses his frustration with the tribe’s decision to trade in the comfort items for food. Although Jeremy was one of the original Hunahpuh tribe members and was one of the reasons that the new tribe ran out of food, he fails to consider this when speaking in his interviews. In his discussion, he does not use plural and collective pronouns which is a key component of communication according to “team talk.” For example, explains that “the brainiacs gave the tarp away” and that “they are so dumb.” Jeremy not only places the blame on the rest of the team, but fails to acknowledge that he did not try to stop their actions in any way and therefore is equally responsible for the results of the trade.

In another situation, Julie uses verbal communication in order to express her feelings to the tribe. After the tribe has given up their comfort items, Julie complains throughout the rainy night claiming that she has reached her breaking point. She verbally expresses to the group her discomfort with the situation and her internal feelings of doubt and regret. That same night she explains, ” I don’t know if I can do this.” Through her verbal communication and obvious display of emotions, Julie sends a message to the rest of the group that she is beginning to question her place within the competition.

According to the text, men and women have distinct differences in their manner of communicating nonverbally. Within the Coyopa tribe, Missy and Baylor display nonverbal behavior very common for women as a gender. For example, they continually use expressive movements, displays of emotion, as well as facial expressions to communicate feelings with one another. They also tend to be very affectionate with one another and touch each other when in conversation. Men, on the other hand, tend to distance themselves more from one another, seem less emotionally involved, and touch each other less. However, in the Hunahpuh tribe Josh and Reed appear to the the exception to this rule. Throughout the competition they smile often, hug one another and other teammates, as well as clearly display their emotions. After winning the challenge for his tribe, Reed began to cry in front of everyone, communicating to his team that he is proud that he was able to contribute to the success of the tribe. The couple tend to also interact within intimate space with one another as well as the other tribe members when in conversation. Most men would not react to such an accomplishment in this manner, but would rather withdraw emotional connection from the situation and internalize their feelings. Josh and Reed’s unusual display of nonverbal communication may perhaps be helping them achieve the respect of the female participants and also be the reason they are doing so well in the competition.

This Week….On Survivor

Well right as both tribes come together for the merger and become one team again,  its about to get interesting. Now there are loved ones back together and few singles and all each member has is their alliances. Jeremy immediately gets to work reuniting with Missy, who of course means her daughter Baylor. And Josh and Reed start to get a little anxious and need to do something fast to try and win over Jon and Jacqueline. In the middle of both alliances Jon and Jacqueline start off leaning more toward Jeremy and Missy’s alliance but after talking with Josh and Reed start to reconsider that they may be better off aligned with them for future advancement. Having a hard time cutting ties with Josh, Baylor looks to her mother for direction in which Missy assures her they need to stay aligned with Jeremy, and tells her she is going to have to “suck it up” and be a little phony. Although not easy for Baylor she seems to agree to her mothers plan of action.

As everyone is trying to figure out whose side they will align with there is a lot of “I” and “We” language being thrown around, and alliances are forming based on well thought through out strategies. In the beginning of the episode Missy tries to assure Keith that she should have told him their plan to vote him off just to be safe if Dale had an idol, taking responsibility for her actions in hopes to salvage there alliance- but it doesn’t seem to help.  Meanwhile it has been discovered Julie has been hoarding a bag full of trail mix from everyone and keeping it all to herself. While Julie thinks she is the one smart enough to save the trail mix for later, she states she will share it with who ever she pleases. While she is off tanning the others take her stash and spread it among the group. Starting to feel the tension of everyone Julie begins to break under the pressure. Knowing that everyone knows what she has done, plus her claim she misses her boyfriend John Julie opts to quit the game. Before officially quitting she confides in Missy who tries to comfort Julie to hang in there, mainly for her own good and to keep the numbers on Missy’s side, Julie thinks it may be the best for her alliance, but not for herself in thinking she is close to being ruled off anyways. Jeremy is the most upset at this decision and uses some offensive language towards Julie in the fact that she is letting him and his alliance down, and how selfish he claims her to be for quitting. Obviously a little heated Jeremy rants on about how Julie’s weak call will be a problem for him.

Once it is know that Julie is the one going home this episode it creates a break for those who believed to be on the chopping block which appeared to be either Jeremy or Josh. With Jon and Jacqueline clearly deciding to vote against Jeremy and join Josh and Reeds alliance, Julie’s decision to leave has only given everyone more time for thought. Hoping the odds stay in his favor Josh seems a little hesitant now that they must wait when it seemed a sure thing Jeremy would have been the one to go home.

Why? Why? Why?

This episode began with a huge game changer. Both tribes were combined into being one. It brought loved ones together as well as old alliances. I’t made some weaker, and others stronger. Loved ones were beginning to be a threat for those who were alone. For example Julie and Jeremy, they both were not for the fact that Josh and Reed were becoming in charge, in a way leaders taking over. Right away Jeremy took it upon himself to talk to others and try to convince them to take part of his alliance and work together to as he would say “Have the numbers”. Here we see an example of Team Talk where a lot of “we” is used to sell that his strategy is valuable. Jeremy then noticed that Josh was just as smart and being on top of it as well because the felt that if they didn’t, they would be voted off, and so the competition begins.

Josh wants to take whomever is alone, without a loved and and have continue the groups in pairs. People began to give there words to one another, alliances began to shift but at the end some became confused with what would be the best strategy that would help them in the long run. We then come across hunger, and how food is an essential and critical part of surviving in the island. Julie after the feast they had decides to take into her bag trail mix left and keeps to herself. They then were curious were the left over trail mix was put, they decide to check everyones bags, as Julie was out laying on the beach they check her bag and find it. Some were furious because of the fact that she was being selfish which shows Non verbal behavior from Julie, hiding this valuable snack to them. Julie then came back to the camp where everyone was at, immediately she felt the tension and felt low. She couldn’t take it anymore and the additional emotional challenge of not having her man caused for her to quit and leave. This act, hurt some and also benefitted others, and like mentioned this saved could of just given someone one million dollars.

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Survivor Blog Post #6

Survivor today was called Million Dollar Decision was a surprising episode. At the end Julie ended up quitting from the challenge because she felt alone and stuck in a hole. Chapter 6, Verbal and Non Verbal had a lot to do with this episode. In this episode both tribes were combined, so everyone was in one single group. They called it Huyopa. Once all together there was arguments about whose getting voted out next. It all seemed that they were teaming up to vote Jeremy out. By his facial expression you could tell he was very uncomfortable and mad. Julie on the other hand was alone with out John while the rest was with their loved one or family. She did a selfish move by stealing the trail mix and keeping it to herself and not sharing with anyone. Once the tribe found out she had stole it everyone face expression was in shock and pissed of because they were hungry and she was hiding the food. Julie knew she had done a mistake and that mistake had her feeling guilty so she was confident that they were all going to turn their back on her. So before she got voted out she made the decision to quit. By quitting she risked someones else chance of winning the money and putting Jeremy into more risk of being eliminated. Once Jeremy found out he was super mad, while others were happy.

Survivor Ep. 6

Quick recap, the orange team just destroyed itself, in my opinion, by kicking off the wrong person. Blue team is needing food, and orange will have massive problems working together from this point onward. The old guy, realizing the position he’s in pulls a play to get the ball rolling on his revenge. He proclaims that he has an idol, despite it being inauthentic, in order to create misinformation amongst a portion of the group. Very clever because there really is no better option with his back against the wall. We’ll see if his bluff works out. In the blue group, all of them are visibly weakened and submissive to the host guy, that offers rice for everything the blue have. Clearly, most of them feel inferior to him and go out of their way to visually and verbally express it. Specifically, the grovelling and the eye shifting away during conversation. They close off their bodies, have poor posture, and stand perpendicular, or not facing him. This weak sauce shows that they will need to step it up if they want to get ahead in this game. The reward challenge starts up and blue sends out reed, one of the gay couple, and orange sends out bailor. The challenge requires some physical prowess, without the use of vision, along with a cognitive challenge. You have to feel the sculpture, remember how it feels, then reassemble the pieces. Reed wins by a landslide due to poor planning and strategy, as well as physical incapability of Bailor. The blue team gets the feast, and Natalie goes to exile island with Bailor. She volunteers after Reed picks someone which was truly bizarre. I don’t know why she would do that, but I feel that it will come to haunt her in some way. Every little small wave on this show has drastic repercussions. Blue team gets to their camp, and starts cooking up the reward. They are especially affectionate because Reed just pulled through big time for them and the black guy sees it as a threat. He even says that people that are together shouldn’t show it any way that they like each other and that’s the way it’s supposed to be. What a hater! After the meal, the temperature turns and of course, it happens on the day that they gave up their tarp. They all gather around a small fire and Julie loses it, crying, complaining, the whole 5 yards. The black guy doesn’t realize it himself, but he’s starting to get angrier, more hostile, and more volatile. He’s explicit in making sure we know how stupid his group is for being so weak. Though he’s still quiet and calm now, that will shift most likely at the most inopportune moment is my guess. The competition is on, it seems like this is a profoundly physically bias challenge, but it turns out that the orange team takes a huge lead over the blue squad. The orange team takes a long time on the matching section, because they turn out to be really bad at that part, and blue team catches up and destroys the orange crew. Blue team audibly excited about the result, takes the idol and makes for the happy trail back to camp. On the other hand, the orange team will have their own rude awakening happen I’m sure over tribal council tonight. The old guy on the chopping block is initiating phase 2 of his plan. Due to the uselessness of the idol, having it and using it is pointless, so instead of broadcasting your invulnerability and goading them into voting else, whilst falling into a feeling of false security, he gets to work. What he does is offer the leader of the group, John, the idol in exchange for free passage. Working on John’s insecurity, avarice, and uncertainty is the ideal play that he could have. Now, he can potentially cast the seed of doubt by subtly leaving breadcrumbs of deceit that follow along with him and John, criminalizing both of them. I have come to really respect this geezer and his plotting. The brief talking before the actual vote is generally nervous drivel that does nothing but increase the tension and promote doubt. Interestingly enough, John, the guy I thought was pretty dumb, actually did something highly intelligent. He made his answer open-ended, yet inclusive to seemingly everyone, and at the same time, made people realize that they need to vote however he wanted them to or they will have created a powerful enemy. At the end, it turns out that the desire for immunity couldn’t compete with absolution or loyalty. John voted against Dale kicking him off the program, leaving 2 happy couples, and Keith who had 2 votes given to him. He’ll obviously be suspect from this point on and next time they lose will be greatly amusing because of his idol. Alliances will be off and it will all come down to Keith’s discretion. I thought I had a good grasp on who should and shouldn’t be kept, but the longer this game goes on, the more murky and blurry it becomes. Until next week.

Survivor Episode 6

The show starts out as usual with a recap of the last episodes main events and challenges.  After a quick recap of the previous show, this episodes drives right into the emotions of the person who had just lost their loved one, Dale. He was very upset at who his tribe decided to vote out. Tension was high in the orange tribe but the blue tribe had almost no rice or food for themselves. In their desperation they asked the host of the show what they might be able to work out or trade in order for them to possible get more rice.  The host comes and tells them that they have to trade in everything that they had previously. They blue team made the trade and got the rice. The first challenge was a one on one challenge with Bailor for orange and Reed for blue. It was a pretty close game until Reed took a lead at the end and finished first winning the challenge. Bailor is now sent to exile islands and Reed wanted Julie to go with her but Natalie wanted to go so she went with Bailor. The blue team is left with no tarp to over themselves from rain. It rained all the next night and the pressure is setting in with all the tribe members especially Julie. In the second challenge the orange team takes a quick lead and is winning most of the time until the blue team comes back for a late victory. This now sends the orange team back to kick yet another member off the islands. Before orange team is sent to vote Dale tells John that if he votes Bailor out of the game and if he does Dale will give him his (fake) idol. The orange team voted Dale off and I think it was a pretty smart choice although i would have liked to see Bailor go.

Survivor Episode 5

This show starts out as usual with a recap of the last episode. When the blue tribe arrives without drew in this episodes first meeting drews brother was very shocked. Then the host of the show tell them that they have a chance to play with their loved one because he gave each team a bag with either a blue or red rag. This as you can imagine totally change the game, The blue team now is all singles and one couple and the orange team is three couples and one signal. The blue team totally smokes the orange team in the first and second challenges. As the orange team struggles to keep up they are also having probably communicating. The orange team which is made up of all couples and one single are sent into the voting round. They tribe votes off Kelly, Dales daughter.  I think it was a smart move cause i could definatly see Kelly as a threat to the other succuess in the game.